I can assure you that after reading this post, you will be able to change your belief system. But if, after reading the above line, you think, “No, I can’t change it,” then you are right.
Because you are the one who is going to decide, if you focus on the negative, I can’t force you to focus on the positive.
This is a daily habit you have to practice. And if you have thought that you can’t change your belief system after reading this post, you have a habit of negative thinking. Negative thinking happens when you just judge things negatively without trying anything.
First, try to focus on the positive, or don’t think at all. Maybe you can think, “Let’s see what happens after reading this post,” or perhaps you think, “Okay, I’m going to change.” These are positive thoughts. This way, you’re giving your brain a chance to focus on possibilities and the positive side.
Be a self-aware person; the moment you think negatively, start observing why you did this. Why did it happen? Pause for a moment, then relax, and start seeing things from a different perspective.
Positive attitude.
You’ve all heard about Henry Ford. When he decided to make an engine, even his own engineers denied it, but he made it. How? Just because of his belief system. He had 100% belief in himself that he could make it. And he said, “If you think you can, and if you think you can’t, you are right.”
To have a positive attitude towards yourself, you have to control your beliefs. What I mean by control is that your belief system shouldn’t be disturbed by others’ opinions.
Like Henry Ford, he didn’t give up after his engineers denied him. That’s how you have to be powerful and positive enough to make it.
Your belief system becomes stronger through driven desire.
Ever wondered why some people succeed? They all have the same 24 hours, right? It’s because they’re driven by their desires. You have to find your desire.
You might think there’s nothing, but everyone has something they love. You can turn that into your desire. But it’s not just about desire; it’s about being driven. Your desire should drive you every day.
For instance, let’s say you want to travel, but you don’t like your job. You can make that desire work for you. Think about it: if you do your job, you’ll earn money to travel. But this can only happen if your desire to travel is strong enough to make you work every day.
Take Dashrath Manjhi, for example. He broke a mountain. Why? Because of his love for his wife. Here’s his story: His wife fell from a mountain, and the nearest hospital was 90 km away because the same mountain blocked the shorter route. She died because they couldn’t reach the hospital in time.
So, he decided to break the mountain with a hammer. After 22 years of hard work, he did it. How? Because he believed he could. Now, there’s a road, making it easier to reach the hospital. His belief system became strong because of his love for his wife.
You can also think about your parents and how they struggled to give you an easy life. You can make it your desire to give them a better life. Do what works for you. Do the work you love, or start loving the work you do.
You can strengthen your belief system by gaining knowledge.
Because you believe you can’t change easily, you’ve made your belief system strong by believing that changing is hard. So start feeding new knowledge into your brain. Go to different places, and meet new people.
Stop hanging out with friends who only talk negatively and aren’t growing.
Make your surroundings positive.
Action you need to take right now: Take a pencil and write about the things you think you can’t achieve but want to achieve. Then start searching for people who have achieved those things, watch case studies, and study how they did it. Now start improving yourself. Because when you research them, you will realize how much hard work is required, and how you can do it too.
Because you always think that they got success easily. Because you always see their luxurious life, not their struggle.
Thank you!
